Sun, 3 April 2022
Are you reserving some of your capacity for enabling others without you trading time to help them get to where they need? |
Sun, 27 March 2022
What are you teaching whom right now? Every moment is an open possibility for kindness to others and yourself,
Direct download: Kindness_moments_and_contracts_are_not_enough.mp3
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Sun, 20 March 2022
Do you see what matters to those you serve or are you investing in your own illusions and biases?
What pieces have to exist in order for your strategy to work longterm? What pieces does other need to see in order to get to where they are going?
We never see all the pieces that matter, but accepting there is more than we know helps. accepting the uncertainty of what we see and dont see helps free up alot |
Sat, 12 March 2022
Direct download: Blindness_staying_open_testing_thesis_real_learning1.mp3
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Sun, 6 March 2022
just a long list of questions to make our heart and mind rest while looking within and beyond
Direct download: list_of_questions_and_food_for_thought.mp3
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Sun, 27 February 2022
Please help remind those you care about to protect their accounts & devices with Multifactor authentication everywhere. Seek out ways to stay safe, helping those who you believe dont have the knowledge or capacity. its always been urgent. Now you cant afford to wait any more. Help save others by lending a nudge, insight or knowledge. in cyber distance is an illusion and the forces are unreal with very real consequence for you.
Direct download: Cybersecurity_Urgently_help_those_around_you_in_cyber_distance_is_an_illusion.mp3
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Fri, 18 February 2022
Seeing, asking and facing what isn't being said by lifting the Question
How often to you actually pause and make space for yourself to know your position before answering? How often do you refocus on why that ask you for a recommendation? WHY they are asking in the first place? what is is the ask for a recommended for? Whats your position in the recommendation? You're not in their shoes. Dont let them drag you there. Surely have empathy for their position but remain in yours. That said said, respectfully levelup their question in a way you think will help them get from where they are and where they want to go. Dont settle for detours.
Direct download: Seeingasking-and-facing-what-isnt-beeing-said-by-lifting-the-Question.mp3
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Sun, 13 February 2022
No one care how much effort you invested - they care about how it can help them from where they are to where they are going release freely and often. if your idea is all you've got you've got nothing. share it with those who need it and embrace reality. if you have to lock in knowledge you're turning into a commodity. like the hackers in the 80th used to say. information want to be free deliberately put time-blocks onto your calendar to practice with the intent to throw away Do things early enough with margins to let go. create remarkable space for opportunity. put yourself in a position where your effort matters and get evaluated by those you want to help time-blocking, intentional action, reflecting on outcome is key. How often do you do it like that?
Direct download: Loyal_to_Whom_your_Effort_or_the_cause.mp3
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Sun, 6 February 2022
Dont store - Create, Release, Reflect So its set. This show will be renamed Results & Relationships. Why? Im hoping to help you let go of what you make. this show isnt just for me. The simpler name might help those its for. you. Just like everything you create.
sure its important to have an intent, a purpose and an idea if what its for is working. but your work will change, and who its really for will change as you learn more. Going back to Results & Relationships. Making a real big difference is alwawys a dance between multiple axises, multiple metrics es. For example we steal from our selves. write or market - instead of writting better. write closedloop - a novel in the closet dont look for the silver bullet keep doing some work thats helping some real cause, person. |
Sun, 30 January 2022
Dare to be specific and clear enough to create tension. Be respectful to those you serve, and those around you and yourself. Dare to show the tension early saves so many so much - its an huge alternative cost for us people pleasers who rather save those tough confrontative talks for tomorrow. Thinking we're doing the generous thing to have more details, habits, patterns for when we adress it.. yet often resulting in a big cost of delay or ourselves realizing to late that we're serving the wrong thing to long. |
Sun, 23 January 2022
(I just realized I published this episode to my other podcast, Psychology & Cyber thus just uploading it here as a copy. Sorry for the delay and mistake on my side)
Ready is a choice, it not worth waiting for.
Whats worth being ready for?
Often Ready means too late. What would some early real life, real customer feedback mean for your work?
Direct download: Ready_is_a_choice_its_not_worth_waiting_for.mp3
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Sun, 23 January 2022
Remarkable Position and easy to say name change
I've been wondering if we should rename this thing to Results & Relationship. What do you think oh most splendid of listener? When I started our pod was primarily for computer leaders using the words direct, Relationship Power and such. Over the years I observed others, and myself struggle saying the phrase "Relationship Power at work"
Your reputation precedes you. Its nothing new but more urgent than ever with the ever-present machine learning. Your results is one of the most Key factors setting the options for who you get to build relationships with. Results. Done well and generous are also something others feel good about remarking on. Good for their own benefit (self image, status and possibilities) as well that remark benefitting their friend and you.
Direct download: Remarkable_Position_eventual_rename.mp3
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Sun, 9 January 2022
Owning your choice of context, your patterns and positions from which to serve. Are you owning your choice of context? Are you diving into your context to find the context within the context of what truly matter to those you seek to serve?
Direct download: Owning_your_choice_of_contextspatterns_and_positions.mp3
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Sat, 1 January 2022
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Sat, 18 December 2021
What do you rhyme with? What does your work ryme with? We live in a time where most want to "Predict the next big wave", "find The Key that unlocks it all" or that "The golden segment to distript industries". Chasing that dream of exponential growth. Believing we see it everywhere. Not seeing the infinite amount of tries between the dots of success. For most of us this results in a cost of delay, in procrastination lost in a waiting game. Doing something every day that you learn from is the most common story of those that have made it. What do you ryme with? Often it helps me think of predictions like spirals or repeat cycles. Instead of trying to predict exacly what the future looks like its often more helpful to se the pace of small levelups around you. Surround yourself with people that appreciate that you try to daily show up for what you believe in. To make a differerence for that next ryme. People who will happily let you borrow their work and learnings for that next experiment. People believing your effort will help you all versus being in a competition. |
Sun, 12 December 2021
Do you see its many sides and shapes? There is always many sides and shapes to everything that matter.
Do you intentionally surround yourself with people who are happy to accept that on the edge there isnt a one clear metric to rule them all? Do you intentionally gather people who get energy, rest and clarity from being together? Book recommendations in this cast: * Cold Start problem and the double-edged sword of network effect. A book that came out today so I havent fully read it yet |
Sun, 5 December 2021
Uncanny Sight: You saw something inside me that I didnt see until years later yet I wasnt ready when you named it and that made me nervous
Uncanny Sight: You saw something inside me that I didnt see until years later yet I wasnt ready when you named it and that made me nervous Are you making people uncomfortable with what you see or does your lended sights give them freedom, energy or clarity to act for their own benefit? Sometimes the people around you are not ready to connect to what you want to connect on. Often that means you need to go first. To show trust by creating space for them first. [
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Sun, 28 November 2021
Relentless tests. Lessons and gifts are optional. Relentless tests. Every second of your life, business & relationships. Question is though. Are you taking the lessons that matter and letting go what doesnt belong so you learn between tests?
Instead of seeing goals and the long journey there. Embrace the hard obstacles right here right now. Help others move their for them, learning for yourself while doing it. Instead of longing for a smooth journey towards the goal. Embrace that the "deeper downs" will teach you better & faster. So so how can you weave in rest time so you can go deep on a hard problem when helpful? You level up faster in positions like that versus the dream you have of smooth sailing
Who am I teaching right now?
Whats worth that extra care? Who are worthy of that extra effort again and again?
Direct download: Relentless_Tests_optional_Lessons_and_gifts.mp3
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Sun, 21 November 2021
About this eposide: Since the 1990ths I have always created a few cyber communities where we have learned together. (On whatever voice platform made it most easy at the time) This created a space where so many different age-groups, professions and walks of life met. Often and recurring working together creates remarkable spaces. One where we know during our day we have this "other" place where we can questions. Learn from others experiences or share when we feel vulnerable. On any topic from Life, business or anything. I thus jumped into AltMBA number 4. Knowing already at #1 it was for me but I feared I wasnt worthy enough to be there so took a while before I dared. I have since been part of 30 akimbo workshops and a remarkable coach in a few. Because I believe in learning together. Helping each other see better together. Feel seen for what matters. So when my friend Özlem started her course on Maven.com A platform where I've also been part of a few great community based courses I thought we should talk about whats inside her creation for your benefit. About your guest: Özlem Özkan is an author, podcaster, teacher and coach. She tells us more about how she got Seth Godin on her show, went from homeless to living in a monument, and how every NO brought her closer to the YES. Özlem was invited to be an instructor with Maven, a new cohort-based course platform founded by the co-founder of Udemy and the co-founder of altMBA. She is now teaching the cohort-based-course DARE TO ASK at Maven. To attend her free workshop go to https://lu.ma/ooj6zmcs Check out DARE TO ASK on https://maven.com/bridging-workshops/dare-to-ask?custom=true Özlem’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ozlemozkan/ Özlem’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ozkanozlem/?hl=en
Direct download: Dare_to_Ask_with_Ozlem_Ozkan_and_Learning_Together_with_communities.mp3
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Sun, 14 November 2021
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Thu, 4 November 2021
Direct download: Creating_Community_and_ready_is_too__late.mp3
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Sun, 31 October 2021
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Sun, 17 October 2021
Direct download: intentional_actions_and_afterthoughts.mp3
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Sat, 9 October 2021
Direct download: Learn_on_the_Job_and_earning_trust_with_yourself_and_others_to_get_to_do_that_recurringly.mp3
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Sun, 3 October 2021
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Sun, 19 September 2021
Direct download: The_choice_to_be_Curious_Open_and_Kind.mp3
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Sun, 12 September 2021
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Sat, 28 August 2021
Direct download: Mentoring_What_have_you_done_and_learned_so_far.mp3
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Sat, 21 August 2021
Direct download: Age_of_Dis-Information_and_IT_Dept_Tax_Collectors1.mp3
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Sun, 15 August 2021
Direct download: Alternative_Costs_on_your_Career_Capital.mp3
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Sun, 1 August 2021
Direct download: Take_The_Stakes_Down_State_of_Play_Remove_yourself_from_the_Equation.mp3
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Sat, 31 July 2021
Trust: Your reputation, body of work and behaviour precedes you. Dont kill it hiding behind transparency
Direct download: Trust_Your_reputation_body_of_work_precedes_you_dont_kill_it_hiding_behind_transparency.mp3
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Sun, 25 July 2021
Embracing where you are and heading: Leadership is that your intent is felt all the way to everyone including embracing your own inner game
Direct download: embracing_where_you_are_and_heading_Leadership_is_that_your_intent_is_felt_all_the_way_to_everyone_including_embracing_your_own_inner_game.mp3
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Fri, 16 July 2021
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Sun, 11 July 2021
Direct download: Circle-opon-circle-towards-better-clients.mp3
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Sun, 4 July 2021
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Sun, 30 May 2021
Direct download: Follow_signs_of_convenience_in_the_Hive_Computer.mp3
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Sun, 23 May 2021
Direct download: Resilience_Fragile_and_why_generous_work_level_up.mp3
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Sun, 16 May 2021
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Sun, 9 May 2021
Direct download: What_do_you_see_beyond_what_others_measure-Walking_away_from_compromise_Sontronics.mp3
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Mon, 3 May 2021
Direct download: Asking_Questions_Stay_Open_For_what_We_dont_know_HeilPR40.mp3
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Sat, 24 April 2021
Direct download: its_not_yours-long_digital_deep_dive_sennheiser_headset_steve.mp3
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Sun, 18 April 2021
Direct download: What_you_DO_becomes_better_and_easier_KPIs_and_axis_for_better.mp3
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Sun, 11 April 2021
Direct download: What_am_I_stalling_because_Im_afraid_You_have_power_in_now.mp3
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Sun, 4 April 2021
Direct download: 2021-04-04_its_not_yours_whats_really_worth_protecting_try2.mp3
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Sun, 28 March 2021
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Sun, 21 March 2021
Direct download: Virtual_Backgrounds_Digital_Office_Relationship_Building.mp3
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Sat, 13 March 2021
Direct download: Distributed_Work_A_GalleryView_Thumbnail_What_Work_Matters.mp3
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Sun, 7 March 2021
Direct download: Stop_Doing_you_are_not_lazy_just_not_loving_it__descript_auphonic.mp3
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Sun, 28 February 2021
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Fri, 12 February 2021
Direct download: Your_Hobby_and_Why_that_mindset_matters.mp3
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Sun, 7 February 2021
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Sat, 30 January 2021
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Sun, 24 January 2021
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Sun, 17 January 2021
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Sun, 10 January 2021
THE work you want to do again Great work is often rewarded with great work. What do you want to become better at and for whom? Whats a position you would feel its a luxury to serve WHOM from? |
Mon, 4 January 2021
Direct download: Are_they_Glad_they_did_and_to_they_still_benefit_from_your_help_long_afterwards.mp3
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Sun, 27 December 2020
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Mon, 21 December 2020
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Tue, 15 December 2020
Direct download: Understanding_Your_Emotions_Curious_on_others_not_seeking_controll.mp3
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Sun, 29 November 2020
Direct download: Proving_it_versus_Seeking_Enrollment_and_Engagement_auphonic.mp3
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Sun, 22 November 2020
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Sun, 15 November 2020
Direct download: Lonely_Distributed_Christmas_is_coming_for_some-do_you_show_up_for_them_Auphonic.mp3
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Sat, 7 November 2020
Direct download: Time_is_Destroyer_of_everything_Decays__Optimism_auphonic.mp3
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Sun, 1 November 2020
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Mon, 26 October 2020
Direct download: Seek_to_Understand_before_seeking_to_be_understood.mp3
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Sat, 17 October 2020
Direct download: OptionsPreference-beyond-Comfort_Zone.mp3
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Fri, 9 October 2020
Relate to each other, asking ourselves how we RELATE not how we differ, judge or oversimplify into polarized either or. if I'm right you must be wrong: no grayscale Our axis never align perfectly, we can still be both mostly right scripts ignore all sunk costs
instead train on:
Direct download: Generously_Relate_work_to_not_judge_or_divide_Auphonic.mp3
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Sun, 4 October 2020
Direct download: love_your_people_yourself_and_your_results_auphonic.mp3
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Sat, 26 September 2020
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Sat, 19 September 2020
Direct download: Optimism_showing_appreciation_Volunteering_and_projecting_beyond_what_you_see.mp3
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Sun, 13 September 2020
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Sun, 6 September 2020
Direct download: The_Levelup_Cycle_of_becomming_the_company_you_keep.mp3
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Sat, 29 August 2020
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Sun, 9 August 2020
Direct download: Not_Ready_Prepared_for_opportunity_or_risk.mp3
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Sat, 1 August 2020
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Sat, 11 July 2020
Direct download: Relationships_in_DistributedWork_Cyberspace_Everything_decays.mp3
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Fri, 3 July 2020
Direct download: Number_TWO_will_set_you_free_for_opportunity.mp3
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Sun, 28 June 2020
Direct download: Uncertainty_early_Others_Prio_items_isnt_your_1.mp3
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Sun, 21 June 2020
Direct download: Signals_and_the_Position_and_Posture_you_take.mp3
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Sun, 14 June 2020
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Sat, 6 June 2020
Direct download: Leaderhip_isnt_a_checklist_nor_a_websearch_fix.mp3
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Sat, 30 May 2020
Direct download: Distributed_Culture_DiversityWins_Game_Mechanics.mp3
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Sun, 24 May 2020
Humble is not thinking less of yourself, |
Sun, 17 May 2020
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